The holidays are upon us. Actually some retail stores brought the holidays upon us back in October, but now that Thanksgiving has passed we’re all synchronizing our mindsets to look forward to the upcoming holidays. With the holidays come shopping, office parties, social gatherings, baking cookies, an increase in volunteering with charity’s, writing letters to St. Nick and dreaming of what might be under the tree this season!
Unfortunately too much emphasis is put on the notion of “buying stuff” for people for any holiday you’re celebrating. In my case it’s Christmas. As I mentioned earlier, retailers were advertising and planting seeds in our minds back in October (maybe earlier) to get ready and spend, spend, spend this season. Obviously the holidays are a time for sharing and giving, but take a moment to think about if you’re sharing and giving from your heart or from your head. Meaning, is why you’re giving to someone because you really appreciate that person in your life and you want to give something to thank them for being a part of your life, to re-confirm to them that they’re special to you or because you just want to? I think it’s really important that we all give from our hearts and not because it’s “expected” or “the right thing to do.” Somehow giving just doesn’t have the same meaning when you’re doing it out of obligation or guilt.
To Give In The TRUE Spirit is to give because you want to share happiness & joy with others. During this time of year, consider giving your time to a charitable organization. The Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia, like many other foodbanks in your area, are looking not only for food and cash donations but also for volunteers to help sort the donated food and distribute to those in need. Also look into your local Meals on Wheels programs, which deliver meals to the elderly and disabled, to inquire what they need help with. On that note, there are probably many types of organizations which serve those less fortunate and are worth checking out anytime of the year.
Together, by giving a little of ourselves, we can all gain a lot.
“We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.” — Winston Churchill